Lessons
Lessons on business and life that I’ve learned in my short 20 years here, I’m in that sort of mood.
- Trust nobody but yourself. No matter what you think, there’s a little bit of devil in everyone. The bigger the issue, the less you should rely on other people to trust.
- In regards to business, think a long time about big decisions. Whether it be ethics, investments, cash flow, time, etc. Just sit down and think about it for a few days. Acting on impulse can lose you a lot of money.
- There’s always an excuse. Another trust issue I guess (can you tell I’m having them? lol). No matter how much somebody promises you something, there will always be an excuse out of it. When you go into something (business or life) be prepared for all excuses, no matter how lame they may be (because sometimes they can be very, very lame).
- Always take risks. 9 out of 10 times you’ll fall on your ass and it’ll hurt, but the 1 time you succeed you’ll forget about the other 9 times. Even if you fail, over time you’ll end up at the same place you would if you hadn’t taken the risk at all.
- Friends are important (as well as family), so make sure to have either. They can be the one to pull you out of a rut, stop you from losing money with a poor business decision, or just help you pick yourself back up.
- No matter how horrible you feel about having something bad out there happen to you, it happens to other people too. And they pick themselves back up and get back to life, so why shouldn’t you?
- Listen to music (actual music, not rap).
- Surround yourself with happy people, it really does rub off on you. Likewise, stay away from depressing and mopy people.
- If you think you know you’re at the bottom, know that the only way to go from here is up. Life and business have the same cycles I think. The cycle can be controlled though, and you alone determine how long you stay at the peak, and how long you stay in a recession.
- Don’t be afraid to be alone. Whether it’s quitting your dayjob or moving out by yourself, you’ll end up amazing yourself at what you alone can accomplish. It’ll always be a struggle in the beginning (ie quitting your job), but unless you truly think you’re horribly weak, you’ll notice that things will just start clicking. You’ll find a way.
- Understand that nobody will ever understand Google Adwords.
- There’s a 95% chance Facebook will disapprove your ad.
- I didn’t really lose 44lbs in 3 months with acai.
- Be crazy. Most successful people are.
- Never feel like you’re “settling”. We only get 1 life here, you should be taking advantage of every second you have.
- Never give up on something you truly believe in. Giving up is settling, and we don’t settle.
This post isn’t over yet. If you have a blog out there, MAKE A POST LIKE THIS. Share your experiences with everybody so they can learn from them. I’m only 20 so I still have a lot of life to get through and have plenty more to learn, so make a post and let me know what you’ve learned. Don’t have a blog? WordPress.org.
Don’t be a pussy either, it’s the internet nobody cares about you on here anyway. I’ll even blog about it and throw you a link if you do, so get your blog some traffic and make a post already.
Not being a pussy should be lesson #1.
Thanks for the post, +rep
*hugs* the Uberaffiliate.
*hugs* Dr. Phil.
great compilation.
big hands up from berlin, germany.
cheers & keep on rockin’ !
*hugs* Jack Daniels.
Unnecessary shot at rap. While I love to listen to classical and world music, a little bit of hip hop can put you in the right “get money! get! money money money!” mindset which can carry you through a long night of work.
:)
The following sentence is hands down the most informative & true thing you have ever posted.
“Understand that nobody will ever understand Google Adwords.”
great post doc!
Some really good advice there.
Don’t make any enemies or fuck with ANYONE, you will never know when you will need that person again.
Couldn’t agree with you more. I love classic rock, relaxing music, metal, Christian music, etc etc, but there’s nothing like some Lil C – Come With Tha Check or [insert other “make dat money” song] when you are working. It just makes you want to lay in a pile of $20s
:)
Great list. My favorites are never trust anyone but you and never ever give up. Sorry about the break up a while back man. You will come out stronger. There are many more fishes in the sea.
Another Hit The FUCKING Nail on the Fucking Head blog post Paul!
dead on exact and I like it! I am going to make a post about this and put some stuff of my own on my blog!!!
Remember, Keep your chin up and your sights high!
Tom Howell
Rap Music…is actual music you big nose biatch!
“Be crazy. Most successful people are.”
Yup. Be CRAZY, don’t be LAZY.
“Never feel like you’re “settling”. We only get 1 life here, you should be taking advantage of every second you have.”
Life is too short to be ordinary. Let’s double our VICTORY and make the HISTORY.
-hairul
(New friend from Malaysia) =)
This is the gayest thing I have ever read on the internet. Even gay people would call this post gay.
LOL
Going off that, I don’t agree with your #1 Paul. While there are lots of reasons to doubt and a mass majority may not be completely trustworthy, there are people out there I can trust whole heartedly. Not many can lay claim like that but there are those out there who are there and honest.
Great post Paul, so true. :)
yikes! That dump really bitch-slapped you HARD. Be a man and move on.
I agree with it all, great points, ive learned plenty of them in my 32 years.
This post seems to be more focused on your breakup with your ex than affiliate marketing..
You sound wise for your age and you’re very lucky to have learned some of these lessons by the age of 20 – it took me more than 40 years to learn a few of them myself ;)
You had me going until you said, listen to music, not rap. Who are you to tell people to not listen to a genre of music? Sometimes you really show your age!
PAUL, a video case study would be sweeeet 4 this blog!!!
Listen to “metal”. That always gets me motivated and pumped.
Thanks for the post. It is really refreshing and motivational too!
Got some good points there. I especially like the acai one LOL.
Hi Paul, thanks for really useful advices ;)
Awesome post man. I’m going to write one tonight!
I agree that was a very un-necessary shot at rap for no apparent reason. Maybe your ex hooked up or cheated on you with someone who listens to rap.
One thing I know, is that you are clearly acting like whining bitch if you are writing these nonsense posts that takes cheap shots. The last couple of your posts have clearly shown that you need to get over the break up. Your ex probably broke up with you for being so emo.
awesome post
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thanks for sharing your “Lesson” dude!
dude..you are so right.
Good list of lessons. Hope see more lessons like this soon because it was so inspiring.
@afiq_Baker – Love playing music with guitars!
lol, some interesting points.
Yeah same, lol. We all write b/s like that. :p
Will take it into consideration, thanks!
http://www.destonesucks.com/what-has-happened/
I sold out. Had fun writing it — take none of this personal, its just the internetz.
I really like this post, especially “Be crazy. Most successful people are”
I hate that way of think the most of people have: “Trying to be normal”, I’m not a normal, regular person, and I don’t like to be one.
More crazy you are, more people will remember you, it’s a fact
Great list of lessons. One important thing for everyone to remember, you have to build your own list of lessons and not just learn from everyone else. You have to get out there and do it, when you fall you get right back up. Learning along the way, and taking note of everything. Soon you will be putting multiple things you have learned along the way together into one big ball of profit. Hell I started out and couldn’t make $20 in one month. I have just kept plucking away, and I am making hundreds of dollars a week now. It feels good to see how far you have came. And now I have a sense of direction and feel like I know where to go. Before I was just looking at a blank slate not know what to do next. You learn from your past, and it makes you better in the end.
Without failure there would be no need for success.
No rap? Why don’t you tell us what you listen to then.
We lost many things in our life with the technology and the big world !!!
I think we lost many thing in the latest century.
Thanks a lot for those tips Paul, I will take them into consideration
I share your idea about the wisdom of being alone, though it is not bad to be surrounded by friends,there is a sacred time you devote to yourself -to get to know about the life from the inside.
I’m sorry about your girl man, it really sucks when that happens, big time! Good luck.
Not a bad read, lol.
I like your comment about Adwords (“Understand that nobody will ever understand Google Adwords.”) Pretty funny!